I’ve been dumped twice in my adult life. Both times the guys gave me almost the exact same call-it-off speech, and it got me wondering if I am doing something wrong, or if my dating philosophy just isn’t really aligned with that of the modern man?

The author reflects on their six-week stay in Medellin, Colombia, highlighting the city’s beauty, street art, and lush green landscape. While they enjoyed dancing, paragliding, and exploring Comuna 13 and Guatape, they found the local food mostly underwhelming and the city somewhat challenging in terms of walkability and safety. Nonetheless, they recommend Medellin for its vibrant atmosphere and warm people.